Girl Problems
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Girl Problems
Ok there is this girl that i like and i think she kinda likes me. So you are saying go ask her out. Yeah one problem she is going out with some one i know the kid use to be my firend but i stopped hanging out with him about 4 months ago. I have recently been hanging out with this girl and she is very nice and i like her alot what do you think i should do? Thanks
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ahhh, what a twisted, tangled up situation this is. okay, here's my input (hope it makes sense):
- on the one hand, she's already seeing someone, right? that would make u a snake type dude. nobody wants to be a snake
- on the other hand, if she's not dating someone ur tight with, then u ain't gotta worry about betrayal.
- something else to consider, if she's willing to step out on dude like that, what makes u think she'll be true to u?
- if the chick is uber fine, then ***k it, u only live once!
even though my random thoughts probably didn't make sense, what i'm trying to say is that if u wanna kick it w/her like that, make sure she does the right thing and cuts it off w/homie before u two start gettin down to business. sneaking around behind other people's backs is never cool...
- on the one hand, she's already seeing someone, right? that would make u a snake type dude. nobody wants to be a snake
- on the other hand, if she's not dating someone ur tight with, then u ain't gotta worry about betrayal.
- something else to consider, if she's willing to step out on dude like that, what makes u think she'll be true to u?
- if the chick is uber fine, then ***k it, u only live once!
even though my random thoughts probably didn't make sense, what i'm trying to say is that if u wanna kick it w/her like that, make sure she does the right thing and cuts it off w/homie before u two start gettin down to business. sneaking around behind other people's backs is never cool...
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Originally posted by BaysideBlue S14
i am 20.
Hey -HyJynX- long time no talk to your never loged in on aim
i am 20.
Hey -HyJynX- long time no talk to your never loged in on aim
And if i do i get booted a few minutes later..its ghey. Sil brought up some good points...heres my lil 2 cents.
Talk to her about her man, how serious is she bout him and blah blah blah. If he is a dick to her, tell her that you will treat her right and blah blah blah..try to get her to come to you ya know?
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Thanks guys for all your input i am going to go talk to her tongiht about this stuff i will let you all know how is goes. But what i belive what i am going to do is just let there relationship end all by its self. I dont want this guy being mad at me for breaking them up although he is extremely ****ty to her.
Also how can i change my title right below my name, i did on my other sn on this forum, but i got a new car so i got a new screen name is there anyway to switch over the post from the other screen name? thanks guys
Also how can i change my title right below my name, i did on my other sn on this forum, but i got a new car so i got a new screen name is there anyway to switch over the post from the other screen name? thanks guys
Last edited by BaysideBlue S14; Dec 1, 2003 at 11:16 AM.
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Originally posted by BaysideBlue S14
Also how can i change my title right below my name, i did on my other sn on this forum, but i got a new car so i got a new screen name is there anyway to switch over the post from the other screen name? thanks guys
Also how can i change my title right below my name, i did on my other sn on this forum, but i got a new car so i got a new screen name is there anyway to switch over the post from the other screen name? thanks guys
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From: From Tampa FL./in AirForce, ND
Originally posted by Sil40_Mayhem
ahhh, what a twisted, tangled up situation this is. okay, here's my input (hope it makes sense):
- on the one hand, she's already seeing someone, right? that would make u a snake type dude. nobody wants to be a snake
- on the other hand, if she's not dating someone ur tight with, then u ain't gotta worry about betrayal.
- something else to consider, if she's willing to step out on dude like that, what makes u think she'll be true to u?
- if the chick is uber fine, then ***k it, u only live once!
even though my random thoughts probably didn't make sense, what i'm trying to say is that if u wanna kick it w/her like that, make sure she does the right thing and cuts it off w/homie before u two start gettin down to business. sneaking around behind other people's backs is never cool...
ahhh, what a twisted, tangled up situation this is. okay, here's my input (hope it makes sense):
- on the one hand, she's already seeing someone, right? that would make u a snake type dude. nobody wants to be a snake
- on the other hand, if she's not dating someone ur tight with, then u ain't gotta worry about betrayal.
- something else to consider, if she's willing to step out on dude like that, what makes u think she'll be true to u?
- if the chick is uber fine, then ***k it, u only live once!
even though my random thoughts probably didn't make sense, what i'm trying to say is that if u wanna kick it w/her like that, make sure she does the right thing and cuts it off w/homie before u two start gettin down to business. sneaking around behind other people's backs is never cool...
HAHAHAHAH, that was great stuff, Sil40 Here let me add my seniority of twisted Sh*t that happen to me in my life.
1st: Men by nature were built to hunt or when it comes to females chase. From personal experience I learn that by not saying how felt cost me alot of relationships and potential relationships. When I was younger I wasn't agressive enough when it came to females(
yea, I said it, I was scuuured of p*ssy, razz me all you want but a real man recognizes hi mistakes.). I alway beat myself up in regret that I didn't tell how I felt. I made a pack to myself that I would never say to myself I should of and could of again!2nd: Lets get deeper, If you tell her how you feel your not going to lose her. WORST CASE senerio you might lose a potential relationship but you'll gain a even closer female friend that in the future well relize her mistake. You in the future well have the upper hand when she is single in that she trust and respects you more then any other guy cuz expressed feeling that were very deficult to express.
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Originally posted by BaysideBlue S14
While boys
She likes me it looks like **** is all good and we may start dating soon. I asked her "could you ever see yourself going out with a guy like me" and she said yes so. Thank you all
While boys
She likes me it looks like **** is all good and we may start dating soon. I asked her "could you ever see yourself going out with a guy like me" and she said yes so. Thank you all
But wuts the situation with the guy she is goin out wit?
Cupid break me off, man!!!!!!!!!!! LOL