When I used to work at the car wash, one of the employees there had some "thing" for me. He would constantly flirt with me and get annoying real quick. No matter what I would do to hint that I was not interested and that I was engaged.. it didn't work! He got fired and I thought that was the last of him.. until today.

I pulled my car into our circle drive area right in front of my apartment. I heard someone yelling my name, but I do not know anyone here that well. Except for the lady upstairs, but, it was obviously a mans voice. I start looking around and see someone walking towards me, but can't tell who it is because the sun was in my eyes. I was just like, "yeah what's up?" and then when he got closer.. I realized who it was... the crazy guy who likes me.

He was telling me how he didn't know that I lived here and asked if my fiance lived with me and all this crap. He showed me where he lived, which is pretty much kitty corner to where we live. He was all talking how I shouldn't be a stranger now and he won't be a stranger either.

I really do not want this guy anywhere near my apartment. He gives me the creeps. I just don't know how to go about telling him to STFU and leave me alone.

So, I'm just looking for a little advice. I do not want him bothering me. My fiance is very protective of me and doesn't like it when some guy is bothering me to the point where it creeps me out. Help.. please?

 

write "****ING GO AWAY!" on a post-it and stick it on his door.

problem solved.

 

how many guns do you and your fiance own?

 

Attack-dog?

 

avoid him at all costs. dont even walk/drive around where he lives.
if not, have your fiancee handle it

 

no, its just a doberman... i dont know many that would attack anyone they are really affectionate dogs lol

 

just talk to him~ haven't you ever had to dump a boyfriend? Just give him the usual BS "Don't take this personally, I'm sure you're a nice guy, but I've got a lot going on and I just don't have time for you, blah, blah, blah" that and the fact that you already are engaged, u should make it clear to him that you don't think it's appropriate for you to spend time with him~ you're fiance doesn't like you hanging around other guys and you want to respect his wishes, blah, blah, blah... if talking to him doesn't work, then yeah sic your boyfriend on 'em.

 

tell him you have a *****, and you aren't afraid to use it..

jk

either talk nicely to him, and let him down gently..

or get a restraining order...

 

have your fiance kick his ***... or use one of these: